suicide, as a radical form of “passive aggression,” becomes an option. By
killing oneself, the subject who is denied personhood within the family brings
severe disrepute to that family and thereby shames and socially punishes it. If
someone feels that they have “lost face”—that is, their identity—at the hands of
their family, they can in turn make the whole family lose face by committing
suicide. The family is publicly exposed as dysfunctional and violating proper
role enactment. The act of suicide serves as an act of revenge for the injustice
received—the denial of role identity—and is intended to bring the perceived
perpetrators to justice by harming their reputation and status within the local
community.