Eva Illouz has shown that in current “emotional capitalism,” the public
exhibition of feelings and personal preferences can make the self a valuable
commodity. For her, this results in a tension: “The technology of the Internet
thus positions the self in a contradictory way: it makes one take a deep turn
inward, that is, it requires that one focus on one’s self in order to capture
and communicate its unique essence, in the form of tastes, opinions, fantasies,
and emotional compatibility. On the other hand, the Internet also makes the self
a commodity on public display.” Public self-display, as Illouz points out most
accurately, is directed toward an “abstract and anonymous audience,” a “general
audience of unknown, abstract candidates” or the “generalized and abstract
audience” (80– 90). We fully agree and call this audience the “general peer.”